She grew up in a high performing family where the language of the dinner table, on the rare occasions there was one, was performance, accountability and output.
Not because anyone was cruel. Because that was simply the water everyone swam in. Business. Drive. Metrics. Results. You either kept up or you figured out why you weren't. There was no third option.
She figured it out early. And then she kept figuring it out, for everyone around her too.